Tuesday, 23 December 2014

Music for a blissful state of mind



I've been feeling rather good lately. 
I had an amazing trip overseas, cut off my hair, got into my dream film school, turned 19 and I've been having a wonderful time catching up with friends, watching movies and reading since I've been back home. 
And of course, being the movie nerd that I am, I like to soundtrack my life. So here is what the soundtrack sounds like currently:


Saola - Beat Connection 

The Palace Garden, 4am - Beat Connection 

Rather Be - Clean Bandit (feat. Jess Glynne) 

Arrows - Fences (feat. Macklemore and Ryan Lewis) 

Fall At Your Feet - Saint Raymond 

The Obvious Child - Paul Simon 

Foreigner's God - Hozier 

Everywhere - Fleetwood Mac 

Thinking Out Loud - Ed Sheeran 

Taylor Swift's 1989 album (I couldn't possibly pick one song) 

Close to Me - The Cure 

Free Fallin' - Tom Petty (I like to re-enact the scene from Jerry Maguire when I'm driving...) 

All My Friends - LCD Soundsystem 

Sight of the Sun - Fun. 

Walk on the Wild Side - Lou Reed 

Sunday, 21 December 2014

Lessons Learnt When Travelling Solo


Exploring the ruins at Pompeii

I recently returned from a 9 week solo trip in Europe and the United States. 
Being an 18 year old female alone in a foreign country is the most vulnerable and frightening position I have ever been in and I don’t think I quite realised the magnitude of what I was doing until I was out there doing it. The shock, concern and wonderment I would get from people I met made me realise that what I was doing was actually kind of a big deal.

I rode horses in Iceland, channelled my inner princess at Versailles, ate my weight in Pasta in Italy, met some of the kindest human beings on the planet in Austin, marvelled at the Grand Canyon, walked in Memphis (cue song ), gained a new appreciation for country music in Nashville, celebrated my first ever Halloween in Los Angeles, and much, much more. 
Another thing that happens when you’re travelling the world, by yourself or otherwise, is that you learn A LOT. I learnt a combination of both profound life lessons I will carry with me forever, and trivial little things that are probably just good to know. 
Here is what I learnt on my big trip:
  1. Travelling by yourself is hard, especially at first, but it gets better.
  2. Everyone isn’t thinking you are some kind of weirdo, anti-social freak (or something negative like that), most people aren’t thinking about you at all.
  3. Having a foreign accent (especially Australian) is the biggest advantage for meeting people, particularly when you are by yourself. 
  4. By American standards, I must look much younger than I actually am (apparently I could pass for 16... not sure if that's a good or bad thing?)
  5. People are not that scary. Well, most of the time. 
  6. Regularly washed (and when I say washed I mean with proper detergent in a machine) clothes are something I really take for granted. 
  7. Concert etiquette (or lack thereof) is essentially the same everywhere. Some people will try and push their way to the front, others are too drunk to function, and there are always those who dance like no one is watching.
  8. I need to take care of myself. Not getting enough sleep (and evidently I need a lot of it) is a terrible, unhealthy thing to do. It will affect me in more ways than one and end up making life harder. 
  9. I get motion sick. Especially on rocky whale watching boats. Accept that fact, take a tablet and move on!
  10. Never expect a seat on public trains. It is these kind of expectations that send your hopes crashing to the ground.
  11. I need nights in. Whether it be getting room service and watching TV, or a can of soup and chatting with someone, my poor introverted self occasionally just needs a solo night doing laundry. 
  12. In contrast to the lesson above, I also learnt that I need human contact. Upon arriving in Austin and feeling like it was all too much, as soon as I got to the Austin City Limits music festival and started having positive interactions with others, I felt 100 times better. 
  13. Being a young woman, by yourself, in a foreign country is probably the most vulnerable I’ve ever felt in my entire life. Obviously I’ll never know, but I can imagine a man (of any age) would not have the same kinds of fears and trepidation I had almost every day and definitely every night. 
  14. I don’t always have to do what I think I “should” do. When you do things only for the purpose of impressing or satisfying others, you rarely enjoy it yourself. 
  15. Being vegetarian on planes is actually the greatest. I would be finished my meal before the people around me had even received theirs, this did make me feel a little bad though… but I was mostly just happy and satisfied,
  16. I can finally say I definitely know what marijuana smells like... I'm sure there is a scenario where that is a useful thing to know.
  17. Southern hospitality in the United States is definitely alive and well.
  18. Be in the moment. Because I would plan my days and know exactly what I wanted to see and do, I found that I was actually rushing through or missing out on experiences. One particular day in LA when I actually didn’t have any concrete plans ended up being one of the best days on the whole trip. I met someone in the morning and we spent the whole day together, making it up as we went along. 
  19. An exit row seat on a long flight is the way to go.
  20. I know it has to be done, but tipping is really stressful and it particularly sucks when the person’s service isn’t very good, but you are socially obligated to tip them anyway
  21. It’s okay. And if it’s not, it’s going to be.
My packed suitcase the night before I flew out

And off I went!

A rainy day in Venice

The Bean! 

Versailles

My Icelandic horse

San Francisco

The Brooklyn Bridge

Dinner in Rome

Friday, 19 December 2014

This week, I couldn't be prouder to be Australian

 

I distinctly remember one of my high school history classes, probably in grade 8 or 9, where a discussion around the topics of multiculturalism and refugees took place.
I sat and listened to loud mouthed, bigoted teenagers say that Muslim women should not be allowed to wear religious attire because “they’re in Australia and have to adapt to our culture” and “they could be hiding a bomb under there”. There were sentiments of “go back where you came from” and "we shouldn't let them into our country in the first place"
And I sat quietly, and listened, and in those moments felt deeply ashamed to be Australian. 
But this week, I couldn’t be prouder.
Why? Because thankfully, humanity, tolerance and kindness have triumphed. 


Here in Australia we have had our fair share of crazy people who have committed heinous crimes, and generally the Australian public always reacts the same way, with warranted anger at the atrocity and an emphasis on paying tribute to the people who lost their lives. But when one of these crazy people associates their version of "Islam" with their heinous crime, there is often another level to the public's reaction, a racist, anti-Islamic ideology that focuses on a religion that has nothing to do with this demented person's actions.
Of course there are still people with this twisted view that continue to denounce Islam after the Sydney siege. However, unlike those racist teenagers in my history class, these people have not been the loudest voices this week, rather religious tolerance and the generosity of the human spirit have been louder. 

Prime Minister Tony Abbott said, "Australia is a peaceful, open, and generous society. Nothing should ever change that."

Journalists (and I am not counting the Daily Telegraph's abhorrent "Death Cult" headline as journalism) have written things like, 

"While it is true that this gunman put Islam front and centre by utilising that flag, let's put the emphasis where it belongs. He may have made it about religion, but the operative word here is "he", and not "religion." ... But such is the marginalisation of Muslims that they are not given the benefit of being individuals" Ruby Hamad.

And,
"The captor's message and his agenda must be countered by us all rejecting the messages of hate, fear, disrespect and of violence" John Blaxland.

A multi-faith vigil was held in Sydney's Lakemba Mosque, making a statement to the world that religion does not define us, and boundaries do not need to exist. We are all human, and we are all grieving. 



And perhaps most importantly, the Australian public (and even the greater international community) have adopted the #illridewithyou campaign. It is a simple, practical demonstration of solidarity with fellow Australians and it is playing a huge role in ensuring our country maintains it's values of democracy, multiculturalism and religious freedom in this difficult time.

"This hashtag movement is powerful sign that Australians won't get worked up into a Islamophobic rage because of the actions of a single madman. It's also a lesson for countries like the U.S., where hate crimes against Muslims spike whenever there's a criminal or terrorist incident involving Muslims, or even when something innocuous happens like debating the placement of a mosque in New York City which wasn't even a mosque. Australian social media users are showing Muslims they're safe in their home and shouldn't fear retaliation for an incident they're not linked to." Jordan Valinsky









Australia, good on ya’ mate.