Friday, 27 June 2014

A First-Timer's Guide to Manhattan


I visited New York City for the first time in December last year for 7 nights with my family and it was one of the greatest weeks of my life.

We were the quintessential New York tourists, excited by the yellow cabs, constantly taking pictures, trying Magnolia Bakery cupcakes and visiting just about every major tourist attraction in Manhattan you can think of. But these are exactly the sorts of things you need to do on your first visit, no matter how 'touristy' they may seem, just be a tourist!

So here are a few things I learnt from being a first timer in the Big Apple

that may be helpful to others going to visit this magical city.

When you can walk, walk.
I discovered that in New York, distances which may have otherwise seemed to far to walk turn into sight filled journeys. There is just so much to see in this magical city that if walking from point A to point B isn't going to seriously cut into your time restrictions, then walk. For example we walked from our hotel in Times Square (W.47th street) up to The Metropolitan Museum of Art and back (with several stops along the way) which is over 30 blocks. Oh yeah, and did I mention bring good walking shoes?

The subway is not a death trap
Well obviously it's not a death trap, but this seems to be the mentality of many tourists before they get to New York, me included. But let me tell you now, it's not that bad. It's a cheap, efficient, fast way to get around and as mentioned above, although Manhattan is most certainly a walkable island, catching the subway helps when you're destination is just that little bit too far. So definitely give it a shot even if it's just once for the experience.

The New York CityPass is great value, but it will certainly keep you busy
The New York Pass gives you admission to MoMA, The Metropolitan Museum of Art, The American Museum of Natural History, The Empire State Building, your choice of either The Guggenheim (our choice) or Top of the Rock and Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island or a Circle Line Cruise (our choice) for the mere price of $109 for adults and $82 for youth. Even though we had 7 days to do all of these things, it really wasn't enough time coupled with the 101 other things we wanted to do. We ended up having to do The Museum of Natural History, The Met and The Guggenheim all in one day as we were running out of time, which, aside from being exhausting, didn't allow us to spend as long in each of these places as we perhaps would have liked. So if you are planning to visit all of the places the New York Pass gives you access too, then by all means purchase one, but just make sure you plan and budget your time well.

The Madison Square Park Shake Shack is the one to go to
Every time we walked past the Theater District Shake Shack (at 8th Avenue and 44th Street) street there was a massive queue out the door, but when we visited the Madison Square Park Shake Shack (near Madison Avenue and E.23rd Street, which also happens to be the original) we barely had to wait to get our delicious burgers, fries and chocolate shakes. Of course I'm not a regular there so I don't know if this is the norm, but even if you do have to wait a bit I still think the Madison Square Park Shake Shack is the place to go, the location is beautiful with a lovely view of the Flatiron Building, the food is obviously scrumptious and I adored the outdoor setting with the fairy lights (despite the fact that I couldn't feel my fingers in the cold).


You get to look at this while you eat ^

The 'Shroom Burger (the only vegetarian option on the menu, but man it was good)

Do The Empire State Building early in the morning
Are the views atop The Empire State Building spectacular? Yes. Would I line up for 3+ hours to see them? No. We had been warned by multiple people that there would be gargantuan queues to get to the top of this magnificent structure and so we were prepared for the worst. But as we approached the corner of West 34th Street at 8:30am on a Monday the employee out the front of the building shouted "Empire State Building, 5 minute wait", and he was most certainly correct. Moral of the story, get there early on a weekday.




Macy's is ridiculously large, so enter with a purpose
This is by no means an exaggeration, it is a behemoth store. You could certainly spend a whole day there but if have limited time and want to avoid falling into this trap my advice would be to either go in knowing exactly what you want to buy (e.g. we needed more appropriate snow shoes) and then eventually navigate your way to that location/s, or alternatively just go in to have a look around. If you go in to "do some shopping" i.e. browse around and see what you find, you will most certainly spend way too long in there.
HOT TIP: If you are an international traveller, show your passport at the visitors centre and they will give you a 10% discount card!
The cosmetics floor of Macy's, only slightly overwhelming

Times Square can be a late night destination
Because there is so much to see and do in New York during the day but so few daylight hours, I would recommend saving Times Square for night time to give yourself more time during the day. Most of the shops are open to anywhere between 10:30pm and midnight so go grab dinner or see a Broadway show earlier in the evening then get a hot drink from one of the many Starbucks and do some late night shopping at M&M World, Hershey's Chocolate World, The Disney Store, Toys R Us, Levi's, Forever 21, Sephora or any of the other super-sized shops.
It is busy, buzzing, bright, exciting and obviously there are a lot of tourists so it feels perfectly safe late at night (but exercise regular precautions and common sense of course).






The obligatory 'standing in Times Square' photo

The TV and Movie Sites Tour is also a great way to see the city
If you've ever seen any movie or watched any TV Show that features New York then you will enjoy this tour. And even if you aren't a movie buff, this tour is a great way to see some areas of the city you may not have ventured to otherwise. The route covers areas of Midtown, SOHO, Chelsea, Tribeca, Greenwich Village, The Meatpacking District and The Financial District among others and the tour bus has screens that plays scenes from movies and TV shows that feature the locations as you pass them.


The Friends Building



The Washington Square Arch featured in many films and TV shows (notably When Harry Met Sally, one of my favourites)

Paley Park in midtown is a hidden gem of serenity
In case you weren't already aware, midtown Manhattan is crazy. But amongst all of the hustle and bustle, one evening we stumbled across this stunning little park at 3 East 53rd Street. I didn't get to see it during the day but at night time it truly was a very peaceful and beautiful place; I highly recommend taking the time to check it out. It is the perfect place to rest, regroup and take some time to breathe amongst all of your fast paced sightseeing.

"Paley Park provides a welcome respite from the concrete jungle ... A waterfall, trees, and ivy covered walls transport visitors to an oasis and away from the sights and sounds of the city." Benjamin Waldman- Untapped Cities

Random recommendations (click on the icons next to the names to see their websites for more information)
Food

Nuchas Empandas in Times Square 🍴

Ruby Foos 🍴

Levain Bakery Upper West Side 🍴

Le Pain Quotidien at Bryant Park 🍴

Shake Shack (duh) 🍴

The Loeb Boathouse Central Park (we ate at the Express Cafe for lunch, but it was still lovely) 🍴

La Bonne Soupe 🍴

Shopping

Century 21 Downtown $

Macy's $

Bloomingdales at 59th Street and Lexington $

Strand Book Store $

Who A.U Herald Square $

HBO Shop $

H&M on Fifth Avenue $

NBC Experience Store $

Tiffany's on Fifth Avenue (even if you're not looking to purchase anything, go inside and have a look) $

Music for Rainy Days



For most people, the weather in Canberra this past week has been less than ideal, but for me, it's been great. 
Yep, I love cold, rainy days (and no this was not influenced in any way by excessive viewings of Twilight in my formative years). 
Of course, I'd love them more if I could stay home all day, drinking hot chocolate and watching movies rather than going to work, but hey, I'll take what I can get. 
And with this cold, rainy weather comes the opportunity to listen to my 'rainy days' playlist, a selection of songs that I feel reflect said weather. So here are a few of the tracks I've had on rotation: 

World Spins Madly On- The Weepies

Low Rising- The Swell Season

Skeletons- Yeah Yeah Yeahs

Paper Doll- John Mayer

Wash.- Bon Iver

High and Dry- Radiohead

Oh Dear- Brandi Carlile

Winter Song- The Head and the Heart

Fresh Pair of Eyes- Brooke Waggoner

Strong Enough- Sheryl Crow

Don't Say- Hannah Cohen

Keep it Loose, Keep it Tight- Amos Lee

Missing You- John Waite

Eye Opener- Dot Hacker

Love Love Love- Of Monster's and Men

November was white, December was grey- Say Hi

See you Soon- Coldplay

Digging Shelters- Neil Halstead

Saturday, 21 June 2014

Lifeline Southside Bookfair Finds

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The Lifeline Bookfair is like Christmas and my birthday wrapped up into one.

I love buying books, DVDs, CDs and vinyl records in general but there is something about going to the Lifeline Bookfair and having no idea what gems I am going to find that I just love.

Because I'm on a pretty tight budget due to the big trip later this year, I didn't purchase quite as much as usual, but I am extremely pleased with my finds and of course I'm always happy to support Lifeline and the wonderful work they do. 

Some great books that I've already read, but couldn't resist adding to my collection

A behind the scenes visual guide to the movie that I used to declare as my absolute, #1 favourite from the ages of 12 to 15

 The Grease Soundtrack and a compilation of 1982 'winners' (not really sure what that means?) 

 A couple of books I am looking forward to reading

Reservoir Dogs, American Beauty, Funny People, The Walking Dead Season 1, The Big C Season 2 and Pearl Jam's Lost Dogs album

French and Italian travel language books for the big trip. When I showed my Dad he said "There would be an app for that"... what can I say, I'm old school.

Sunday, 8 June 2014

Feature movie of the week: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind



Otherwise he proceeds blindly, and after manifold wanderings must come back to the same ignorance from which he started.
- Immanuel Kant

The first time I watched Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind I was, well, confused. I wasn't exactly sure what was going on during the film and after it finished I was completely baffled at what I had just watched. But despite my confusion, there was something about it that I loved. So like any good film nerd, I dove right into extensive reading, multiple re-watchings and completing a school assignment on the film and I'm happy to say I finally got what it was all about, and boy was I glad.

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind was written by Charlie Kaufman (if you've seen any of his other films then you know what you're in for e.g. Being John Malkovich, Adaptation), directed by Michael Gondry and stars the always wonderful Kate Winslet and a surprisingly restrained Jim Carrey as the two leads. It follows an estranged couple, Clementine Kruczynski (Winslet) and Joel Barish (Carrey) who have each other erased from their memories with a new non-surgical technique called targeted memory erasure.

So how does this all play out exactly? Well, one chilly Valentine’s Day morning, Joel impulsively decides to skip work and take the train to the small town of Montauk in New York. He doesn’t know why he decided to go to Montauk on this particular day, but something told him that he should. On the train home from Montauk, Joel meets Clementine. The two have an instant connection but what they don’t realise is that this isn’t actually the first time that they have met each other at all. Unbeknownst to them, they have already been in a relationship with each other not too long before. The reason they don’t remember is because they have both had each other erased from their memories.

And it is through this process of purposely forgetting that they both discover the value in what they had to begin with.



Standout Performances

  • Jim Carrey- I believe this is the best performance Jim Carrey has ever given. He's a funny guy and has played some hilarious characters, but the quiet, reserved way in which he plays Joel really stands out in his body of work. I guess I found it refreshing to watch someone who is usually so vivacious and often over the top be so subdued and minimalistic. Ultimately Joel is depressed and dissatisfied and it is often what Carrey isn't doing (e.g. the silence, his facial expressions) rather than what he is that makes Joel such a sympathetic and, quite frankly, saddening character to watch.


  • Kate Winslet- Although not quite as contrary to her other roles as Joel is for Carrey, Clementine is one of Winslet's quirkiest characters. She could have easily been a manic pixie dream girl (which is not an archetype I dislike), but there are complexities and insecurities and just a general no-bull attitude to her that Winslet portrays with such a vulnerability and realism that save her from falling into this trap. Case in point:
CLEMENTINE
I'm not a concept. 
Too many guys think I'm a concept 
or I complete them or I'm going 
to make them alive, but I'm 
just a fucked up girl who is 
looking for my own peace of mind. 
Don't assign me yours.

  • Kirsten Dunst- I have a real soft spot for Kirsten Dunst, she has been in quite a few of my favourite films and there is something very captivating about her even in minor roles such as this one. She plays Mary Svevo the receptionist at Lacuna Inc. (the memory erasure company) and she does a really good job in the subplot with the other employees as they are erasing Joel's memories. She especially shines towards the end of the film when she finds out that she had an affair with the head doctor of Lacuna and then had her memories of it erased.
Memorable Scenes

  • When Clementine and Joel "meet" on the train at the beginning of the film. Clementine is like a tornado in comparison to Joel, she comes across as very outgoing, confident, charming and even a little crazy. A very clever cinematic technique is that whenever the two are speaking, music is playing in the background, but whenever there is silence, it pauses.
  • When Clementine and Joel lie down on the frozen lake (the image on the poster) and there is all sorts of symbolism with "thin ice" and not falling through etc.
  • When Joel goes to see Clementine at the book shop where she works and, because she has already erased him from her memory, she does not recognise him. Carrey is fantastic in this scene, he is utterly confused, disappointed and shattered.
  • The final scene of the film that takes place in a hallway in Joel's apartment building and Joel and Clementine have the following conversation after which they both just start laughing in a wonderfully cathartic moment:
Joel
I can't see anything that I don't 
like about you. 

Clementine
But you will! But you will. 
You know, you will think of things. 
And I'll get bored with you and feel 
trapped because that's what happens 
with me.

Joel
Okay. 

Clementine
[pauses] Okay.

Music Moments
  • Everybody's Gotta Learn Sometimes- Beck
 
  • Losing your memory- Ryan Star
Although not technically a music moment, this song was written about Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (how awesome is that!?) so it gets an honourable mention.



"Words have weight..." - Jonah Hill teaches us a thing or two about apologising for our mistakes

Last week Jonah Hill said something he shouldn't have.
Whilst out with friends and being followed by paparazzi, he said to one of them, "Suck my d**k, you f****t."


But this is not the sort of language we would expect from someone like Jonah who, at least to me, comes across as a very kind, genuine person and it is especially shocking coming from an avid supporter of the LGBT community. So what happened?


Well I don't know how else to say it other than: he made a mistake.


We all make mistakes, we all say hurtful things and do things we regret, but I don't believe these mistakes are attestations of our character.
Rather, it is the way we respond to our errors and make amends that show who we really are. And unlike many before him, Jonah Hill has done an admirable job at this.


Watch his apology on The Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon to see what I mean.





How about that? Genuine, unscripted, heartfelt  and most importantly, honest.

Whilst referring to the fact that the paparazzo said some very hurtful things to him, he doesn't once use this as an excuse for his reaction. So many celebrities caught in similar situations to Jonah Hill will say "I was provoked", "I was young and stupid" or "I didn't know what I was saying", but he doesn't hide behind provocation, rather he acknowledges that he said the words at his own volition.


Take responsibility, acknowledge the consequences, ask for forgiveness, show that you've learnt from your mistake and say the words "I'm sorry" and more importantly, actually mean them. It's as simple as that.

Monday, 2 June 2014

May Ramblings

May has been a relatively uneventful month; I mean it began with the song "Month of May" by Arcade Fire being stuck in my head so that gives you an indication of how exciting my life is... 

May has been a month of many new music discoveries because I finally signed up to Spotify (a work colleagues response to this fact was "Welcome to 2012, people are using these things called smartphones too") 

I have been incessantly researching tours, shows, hotels, restaurants and a million other things for my big trip later this year. 

But truth be told the majority of my time during May was spent working ($$$), babysitting, and, as much as I am ashamed to admit it... watching The Voice... 

If you are still reading this post and haven't closed it in shame and disgust at my television choices, here are a few other things I got up to in May:


 


Movies


  • Zombieland- The Bill Murray cameo had me in stitches
  • Frozen- DO YOU WANT TO BUILD A SNOWMAAAAAAN! I cannot even explain how much I loved this movie, I finally understand what all of the hype is about.

 



 TV Shows

  • The Slap- Intense, quality Australian television
  • Veep (seasons 1, 2 and 3)- This show is so hilarious I have been binge watching it like there is no tomorrow
  • American Horror Story (season 1)- Although I couldn't watch this at night because I got too scared, I really enjoyed it during the daytime

 
Around town




 



Listening

  • Dancing in the Dark- Bruce Springsteen
  • Pills - Perishers
  • Banner (Acoustic)- Lights
  • My Father's Father- The Civil Wars
  • The Shape of Us- Ian Britt

 

Sipping
 
  • Chamomile tea 
  • Hot chocolates in startling proportions

 


Reading
 

  • The Happiness Project
  • Go Ask Alice
  • Looking for Alaska 
 


Cooking
  


 


The Big Trip

  • I booked my accommodation in Los Angeles, Boston, Seattle and New York
 


Happy snap


A beautiful Canberra Autumn day at Fairbairn in the Canberra Airport Precinct

 



Mantra



"Today I will live in acceptance rather than expectation"



Until next month...

~ Sophie ~